FAQ's | Marla Keenan-Rivero Family Law Mediation (707) 525-8800

A: Mediation is a process where a neutral third party — the mediator — helps both parties in a family law dispute reach their own agreements outside of court. The mediator doesn't decide the outcome; they guide the conversation. It's commonly used for divorce, child custody, spousal support, and property division.

A: In court, a judge makes the decisions. In mediation, you and your spouse make them together with the help of a trained mediator. Mediation is typically faster, less expensive, and less adversarial — and the agreements you reach tend to hold up better long-term because both parties had a hand in creating them.

A: Agreements reached in mediation can be formalized into a legally binding settlement agreement and submitted to the court for approval. Once a judge signs off, the agreement carries the same weight as any court order.

A: Mediation is voluntary, and no one is forced to agree to anything. If you're unable to reach a resolution, you still have the option to pursue the matter through the court system. Many people find that even partial agreements in mediation reduce the scope of any litigation that follows.

A: Yes. Mediation sessions are private and confidential. What's discussed in mediation generally cannot be used as evidence in court. This allows both parties to speak openly without fear that their words will be used against them later.

A: Costs vary by case, but mediation is almost always significantly less expensive than contested litigation. A litigated divorce can cost each party $15,000–$30,000 or more in attorney fees. Mediation typically costs a fraction of that — and the total is shared between both parties rather than paid separately.

A: It depends on the complexity of the issues involved. Some cases resolve in a few sessions over a matter of weeks. More complex cases involving business assets, real estate, or contested custody can take longer. Either way, mediation is almost always faster than waiting for a court date.

A: Yes. You don't need to be on good terms to mediate successfully — you just need to be willing to participate in good faith. A skilled mediator is trained to manage conflict and keep conversations productive, even when emotions run high.

A: Yes. Mediation is widely used for parenting plans, custody schedules, decision-making authority, and other child-related issues. Many courts in California actually encourage or require mediation before a custody hearing.

A: Mediation works best when both parties are willing participants. If one party is resistant, it may still be worth having an initial conversation — many people become more open once they understand what the process actually involves and how it differs from going to court.

A: Absolutely. Having an attorney review any agreement before you sign is always a good idea. Some people consult with an attorney between mediation sessions. The mediator's role is to remain neutral — they don't represent either party.

A: We serve families throughout Sonoma County and the state of California, including Santa Rosa, Petaluma, Windsor, Healdsburg, Sebastopol, and surrounding communities.

A: Yes. We offer a free initial consultation to discuss your situation and whether mediation might be a good fit. You can reach us at (707) 525-8800

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A: Our practice focuses exclusively on family law mediation, including divorce mediation, child custody and parenting plans, child support, spousal support, property division, and stepparent adoption mediation.